Time-out

“He who withholds the rod [of discipline] hates his son. But he who loves him disciplines and trains him diligently and appropriately [with wisdom and love].” (Proverbs 13:24 AMP)

The four-year-old faced the familiar yet dreaded corner of the room—again. After the designated time expired, Dad asked, “Son, are you sorry for what you did?” The youngster shifted his gaze from the corner and looked his dad straight in the eye. Without a word, he slowly shook his head sideways, left to right, choosing to stay in the corner.

This true story may have sparked an array of reactive thoughts:

In amazement to the youngster’s stubbornness: What?

Those who have been there and sympathize: His parents sure have their hands full!

Someone who has not had or dealt with children: If that were my child, I would have. . .

Empathetic and supportive toward the parents: Bless your heart, what did you do?

Stubbornness, rebellion, and other such unfavorable tendencies are significant offenses, and you must address them not only early in childhood but throughout adulthood. Determination to have one’s way; the mindset that I’m right, you are wrong; and blatantly disregarding what God says will assuredly invite life’s discipline. Continued disobedience is an invitation to more than a “time-out” with your face in a corner. When it happens, although painful sometimes, thank God that He loves you enough to correct you (Hebrews 12:6). If you live life as you choose and never experience God’s hand of discipline, the Bible says you are not His child (Hebrews 12:8).