Authentic and Priceless

The extraordinary woman described in Proverbs 31 is strong in character, wisdom, skills, and compassion. Her rare character and worth are invaluable: “Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies” (Proverbs 31:10). Her husband trusts her. She leads a busy and productive life, doesn’t waste time or resources, is an excellent wife and mother, energetic, hard worker, who serves her husband well. She honors her husband and family, diligent in home and business matters. This exemplary woman speaks with wisdom and kindness, ensuring her family fulfills their duty toward God and one another. Above all this, her children and husband call her blessed and praise her. Her fear of the Lord completes and crowns her character; He leads and governs all she does. She seeks no applause.

The writer of this proverb doesn’t mention the outward appearance of this unique woman—attractiveness fades over time; people can pretend to be something they are not. But this one’s loveliness comes entirely from genuine character stemming from her reverence for God. True beauty is the "hidden person" of the heart with a gentle and quiet spirit—precious in God's sight (1 Peter 3:3-4). How can we women attain this great worth laid out in Proverbs 31? Whether single or married, the challenge is attainable by the grace of God and a willing and submissive heart.