Woman of Excellence

 “Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies.” (Proverbs 31:10)

What a woman! Ladies, would any of us measure up to this example of great worth laid out in Proverbs 31:10–31? Whether single or married, the challenge is attainable by the grace of God and a willing and submissive heart.

The extraordinary woman described is virtuous: strong in character, wisdom, skills, and great compassion. Her worth is invaluable. Her husband trusts her; she is a crown to him (Proverbs 12:4). He has confidence that she will do her part in attending to the needs of their family. She will do him good all the days of her life: “For better or worse, in sickness and in health” till death parts them.

The virtuous woman is further defined in verses thirteen through twenty-seven, revealing what comprises her busy and productive life. She doesn’t waste time or resources (v. 27), is an excellent wife and mother, and energetic, hard worker who serves her husband well. Even if he dies before her, she will honor his family, name, and business affairs (vs. 11–15). She is industrious: a realtor and farmer (v. 16), a manufacturer (v. 18), a weaver, seamstress, upholsterer; generous in spirit and charitable to the poor. Her husband is well-known, and she is known (vs. 19–22, 24); she trades and exports her goods (v. 24). This exemplary woman speaks with wisdom and kindness (v. 26). She is a wise home manager, ensuring her household behaves appropriately, fulfilling their duty toward God, one another, and her (vs. 27). Above all this, her children and husband call her “blessed,” and he praises her (v.28). Her fear of the Lord completes and crowns her character; He leads and governs all she does (v. 30). She reaps the benefit of the care given to others and seeks no applause, for her works praise her (v. 31).

Notice the writer of this proverb doesn’t mention the outward appearance of the virtuous woman. Her attractiveness comes entirely from her character. Her strength and dignity are a result of her reverence for God. True beauty is the "hidden person" of the heart with a gentle and quiet spirit—precious in God's sight (1 Peter 3:3-4). Men, if you want a virtuous wife, one who will love and honor God and you, seek and choose one from among available, godly women like this one portrayed in Proverbs.