Inward displeasure against others sometimes begins only as a
slight irritation. But if ill feelings are left unattended, they quickly turn
into resentment and bitterness that can lead to anger, then wrath. Those pent-up, unpleasant
emotions often find release through offensive speech and actions unbefitting a
Christian. No matter how noble our efforts are to champion the rights of others
or ourselves, we are as guilty as the offenders if bitterness is present. God’s
Word is the standard by which we should conduct ourselves, and God judges those
who fall short of it. Our duty as Christians is to be kind, compassionate, and
forgiving, just as God forgave us our sins for Christ’s sake (v. 32). Others
are affected by our attitudes and actions.
God tells us to abandon the former way of thinking and living and put on the new nature of Christ as His child. We must rid ourselves of bitterness and all corrupt evidence of our old life, the one before we met Jesus. Purge yourself daily of the “old man’s” dispositions (vs. 28–31): “Let all bitterness . . . be put away from you. . .” (Ephesians 4:31)—but be careful where you dispose of them.